Barry L. Kaufman devotes his practice to family law, including Alternate Dispute Resolution (mediation and arbitration), and has been practicing law for more than 45 years. His practice is concentrated on family law matters involving complex financial issues, including valuation of businesses and professional practices, and high conflict child(ren)-related matters. He is committed to giving personal attention to each client and practical solutions in complicated situations, whether through resolution or litigation. As an experienced trial and appellate matrimonial law attorney, Barry prides himself on thorough preparation and attention to detail.
Barry serves as a Court-appointed and privately retained mediator/arbitrator and is often selected to mediate or arbitrate difficult or extremely contentious matters. Superior Court judges and fellow attorneys select Barry to arbitrate sensitive family law matters that require an astute understanding of the law. He is a lecturer for the New Jersey Institute of Continued Legal Education in Family Law.
Barry served as a Judicial Law Clerk to the Honorable Harold M. Nitto in 1980-1981.
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Honors & Accolades
- New Jersey Super Lawyers, 2007-2026
- The Best Lawyers in America, 2011-2026
- Family Law
- AV Preeminent, Martindale-Hubbell, 1999-2026
- Bergen Magazine, “Bergen County’s Top Lawyers” list, 2020-2025
Professional Affiliations
- Member, New Jersey State Bar Association, 1981-present
- Member, Bergen County Bar Association, 1981-present
- Chairperson, State of New Jersey District Fee Arbitration Committee (South Bergen), 2002-2004
- Judicial Selection Committee, Bergen County Bar Association, 2005-2008
- Chairperson, Bergen County Early Settlement Panel, 1999-2002
- Member, Bergen County Early Settlement Panel, 1981-1991
- North Jersey Family Law Inns of Court, Barrister 1993-1997, Master 2020-Present
- Member, New Jersey Association of Professional Mediators, 1998-2010
Experience
- Brawer v. Brawer, 329 N.J. Super. 273 (App. Div. 2000), cert. denied 165 N.J. 138 (2000)
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Client Testimonials
“Barry and Danielle recently wrapped up my divorce case. They were both highly effective and genuinely nice people to deal with. Divorce is a highly stressful process and I could not have asked for two better lawyers to help me through it. I was referred to them by a friend who is a divorce lawyer in South Jersey. They came highly recommended and I was not disappointed. For the record, in my former life, 20+ years ago, I was a practicing attorney, so I feel I am a pretty well-informed consumer. I’ll add that I was initially a bit skeptical about hiring two lawyers at once and ‘double billing,’ but this turned out to be a major plus in getting answers quickly (when one was on trial or unavailable) and in getting work done and my case resolved as quickly, efficiently and amicably as possible. Thanks guys.” Matthew G.
“Barry Kaufman is not only a great attorney but a great man. My divorce was not easy, it was complicated with numerous business assets, compiled debt, childcare issues. Barry always brought me down to earth yet fought for me with a soft hand. He is extremely knowledgeable and has over 30 years of experience. He wasn’t only my attorney but he was my therapist and voice of reason. He answered my calls and emails on weekends and always gave me the time and attention I needed. My divorce was finally settled today and I was more than pleased with the outcome. Barry is an incredible man – period.” Lainie
“I’ve known Barry Kaufman in a professional capacity for over 30 years. He’s a first rate family lawyer by anyone’s measure.” Patrick A.
“Getting divorced is a stressful process. For most of us, it is a road we have never been on before. We look to our lawyers for knowledge, guidance, and direction. Barry Kaufman provides all of those things. His legal knowledge was right on every issue that came up. He knows the law, what falls under it and what doesn’t. He spent time discussing strategy and preparing me for every meeting we had so I always felt prepared. He answered emails as quickly as possible, I felt he was very reachable for any questions big or small. Barry always remained calm which is an amazing disposition especially when not everyone else in the room is. Barry is both a top-notch lawyer and human being.” Pamela H.